LEXINGTON, Ky. — As the holiday season approaches, many families look forward to celebrations and joyful gatherings. However, for some individuals, particularly those experiencing intimate partner violence (IPV), this time of year can be fraught with challenges and fear. According to the Centers for Disease Control, approximately 41 percent of women and 26 percent of men report experiencing IPV during their lifetime, a statistic that becomes particularly troubling during the holiday season.
Darlene Thomas, the executive director of GreenHouse 17, emphasized the dual nature of the holidays. “What may be joyous for us, may be very frightening for others,” she noted. The stress and tension that accompany holiday celebrations can exacerbate the situations of those in IPV environments, as abusers may use the season as an opportunity to exert further control over their families. “Unfortunately, those who do harm take [the holidays] as an opportunity to further their power and control,” said Thomas.
In response, GreenHouse 17 provides critical resources aimed at supporting survivors of intimate partner violence during this stressful period. The organization works with survivors to develop safety plans and provides guidance on how to celebrate in a safer manner. Thomas highlighted the importance of listening to survivors and understanding their needs, stating, “We need to trust [survivors]. We need to listen and hear what they’re telling us they need.”
The impact of IPV on children in these households is also significant. Thomas pointed out that while children may be excited about school breaks and holiday activities, they can also sense the underlying stress within the home. The sense of joy commonly associated with the season often contrasts sharply with the fear and tension experienced by these families.
For those in need of immediate support, GreenHouse 17 offers a 24-hour crisis hotline at 800-544-2022. The hotline serves as a crucial connection for individuals seeking help or guidance as they navigate the complexities of IPV during the holiday season.
As communities celebrate, it is essential to remember those who may not experience joy during this time and to take proactive steps to support survivors of intimate partner violence.
